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Some feelings started to grow, but we knew that we were only writing on the net. We discussed it and decided that we had nothing to loose.  What was planned to be just a dinner, became a weekend. Everything went so relaxed and we felt so comfortable being near each other.

Though we knew we wanted to see each other again, we didn't plan anything. Go with the flow and see how it would turn out. Within two weeks, another weekend followed and the fourth time we spent almost a whole week together. Weekend after weekend we went to spent the time together. Unfortunately we lived to far apart to see each other more often. In that we also were forced to go with the flow. Things kept building up and the feelings only became stronger and deeper. We called almost every day, mailed and I don't know how much the phone company earned on our sms-es, but it was a lot :-). We closed our profiles Spray-date and I started to search for a job in his place. Fate made the decision for us: I lost my job in Oslo before I had found anything in Skien. I had nothing left in Oslo, so we moved together in the house he had bought short time before.

What we have feels very strong, confident, but most of all very relaxed. I love him for his respect, warmth and care (he spoils me!), his understanding, love and honesty. With him I can be totally myself, and he expects me to. I feel  so lucky he found me in this crowd of people on the net, and I feel privileged to be his girlfriend. Living together hasn't changed anything of these feelings, on contrary: they only have grown stronger. This wonderful man is all I have ever looked and hoped for in a man.

Sunshine, I love you!